"Dr. Jeff Talks About Sex & Intimacy" is your go-to podcast for evidence-based insights into the complex world of sex, relationships, and connection. Designed for anyone curious about deepening their understanding, each episode, sets the stage for honest, expert-led information and conversations. Whether you're exploring new aspects of intimacy or looking to enhance your existing sexual relationship, Dr. Jeff and his expert guests break down the science and stories behind what it means to truly connect and love in your relationship, empowering listeners with knowledge and confidence in an open, judgment-free space.

Coming May 12th at 7pm CT

Episode 71:
Beyond the Problems: How Play Transforms Sex, Desire & Intimacy

In this uplifting and transformative episode of Dr. Jeff Talks About Sex & Intimacy, Dr. Jeff and cohost Dr. Susan Kellogg-Spadt are joined by Lena Elkhatib, LMFT, CST, CST-S—sex therapist, educator, and expert in cultivating erotic well-being. Lena will explore the profound impact of play on sexual connection, desire, and relational intimacy. People often approach sexual challenges with a problem-focused, analytical mindset—trying to “figure out” desire, performance, or communication with logic alone. But the erotic self doesn’t live in the head; it lives in sensation, curiosity, imagination, and embodied presence. Lena shows us why play is one of the most underestimated tools for shifting out of intellectualizing and into authentic erotic exploration. 

 We dive into how playfulness helps couples navigate desire discrepancies, decrease pressure, spark creativity, and reconnect with their felt sense of pleasure. Lena shares practical ways to cultivate an erotic mindset, prioritize fun, and build a sexual dynamic rooted not in duty or stress—but in joy, experimentation, and shared adventure. Whether you’re feeling stuck, mismatched, disconnected, or just wanting to expand your erotic repertoire, this conversation offers a refreshing, compassionate approach to making intimacy feel more alive, spontaneous, and satisfying.

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